The Generational Cycle of Success

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When you succeed, and are rewarded financially for your success, it has repercussions that, according to my research, affects future generations.

I’m not just talking about money. Sure, wealth can give your children and grandchildren a leg up, if that wealth is deployed towards noble things like higher education.

I’m talking about the non-money traits of self-made millionaires. Children watch everything their parents do. They watch them pursue a dream. They watch them strive to achieve goals. They see their daily habits, witness their behavior, are impacted by their thinking and their emotions.

Success is generational. It can impact multiple generations by virtue of the habits that get passed along from one generation to the next. And those habits have far more value that money.

 

 

 

 

 

Studies Show Habitually Lying Causes Health Problems

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Two common traits of the self-made millionaires in my Rich Habits Study were: honesty and good health. I wondered if it was a coincidence that 95% of the self-made millionaires in my study had forged the Rich Habit of being truthful and that 95% of the self-made millionaires indicated that they were in good health.

So, I decided to do some more research. What I found opened my eyes about the negative health consequences of lying. [Read more…]

Are You Asking the Right People the Right Questions?

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What does it take to be successful at what you do?

Realizing a dream requires that you define that dream and then set specific goals that will enable you to realize that dream.

But what goals should you be pursuing? What action should you be taking?

The only way to know is to learn everything there is to know about the industry your dream falls into. This means you need to read and gain knowledge of that industry. Then you must find out what the successful people in that industry are doing.

This means you must seek out the leaders in your industry. Leaders in your industry understand the industry best and have all of the answers.

Once you find the leaders, the next step is to start asking them questions about what to do in order to succeed in the industry. Then document every one of their answers.

I do this via the binder system. Create a binder about your industry. In that binder will be all of the facts you’ve gathered about your industry and all of the answers to the questions you’ve asked of the industry leaders.

The binder should be separated by topic or category. As you gain knowledge you will be able to define the key topics within your industry and fill each topics with facts and answers. Your industry binder will become your bible for your industry. It will help you maintain and grow your knowledge base over time. Eventually you will become an expert in your industry, a leader.

As your expertise grows, so too will your value to others. They will gladly pay you for your value. In time, the value you provide will reward you financially. Success is a process.

 

 

 

 

The Rejection – Redemption Cycle

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Are you thinking about pursuing something you are passionate about? Maybe it’s a start-up, side business, writing a book, a career change, creating an app or starting a blog or podcast.

If you talked to any entrepreneur who has been chasing their dreams for  some time you’d learn about something I like to call the Rejection-Redemption Cycle.

The Rejection-Redemption cycle is the emotional roller coaster ride you must survive in order to succeed in any venture.

The learning process in any new pursuit is littered with rejection. Everyone in the beginning says no to you, your idea, your product or your service. You will be rejected over and over again.

This is the Rejection part of the cycle. The negative emotions and self-talk you will have to endure during the Rejection cycle is harrowing. It pushes you to the edge. You second guess yourself constantly. You get depressed. It’s not an easy thing to endure.

But if you persist eventually someone will say yes. This is the Redemption part of the cycle. It’s exhilarating. For a short period of time you feel like you are walking on air. You feel imbued with confidence and motivation.

Until you get the next no. Then the cycle starts all over again.

The emotional ups and downs you must endure when you are pursuing a dream cause most to cash in their remaining chips, lick their wounds and go out and find a job.

According to Forbes Magazine, 90% of those who pursue a dream will, at some point, fail. According to my research, 27% of those 90% will pick themselves up, try again and eventually become multi-millionaires.

The ability to survive the Rejection-Redemption Cycle is the #1 factor of success for self-made millionaires. Adequate working capital is #2.

Seasoned entrepreneurs out there know exactly what I’m talking about. Money can always be found for the highly motivated but weathering the emotional ups and downs takes super-human resolve.

Do you have what it takes to survive the Rejection-Redemption Cycle? There’s only one way to find out.

 

This Welfare Mindset Anchors Millions in Poverty

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In 2013 I did an interview with Dave Ramsey. After the interview, Dave decided to post an article about my research on his website: 2o Things the Rich Do Every Day.

Almost immediately the article went viral. Millions clicked on Dave’s list and began to comment on the post. It didn’t take long for the national media to take notice. A very prominent CNN blogger posted a scathing rebuke of the article. The Huffington Post put their two cents in, as did the Daily Kos and many other big-time blogs around the country.

Yours truly received thousands of emails, some good, some not so good. Some emails called me heroic, others called me things so offensive, they’re better left unsaid.

Clearly, Dave’s article hit a nerve. After the fog cleared, I realized why so many felt so strongly about Dave’s post. [Read more…]

The Poor Gamble More Than the Rich

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In my Rich Habits Study, 6% if the rich gambled regularly on the lottery vs. 77% of the poor and 16% of the rich gambled on sports at least once a week vs. 52% of the poor.

Two separate studies published in the Journal of Gambling Studies in 2011 and 2012 found that the poor gambled more often often than the non-poor.

In a 2008 study published in the Journal of Behavioral Decision Making found that poor people play the lottery more often than the non-poor because lotteries leveled the playing field between the poor and the non-poor – the odds are of winning are the same.

Lotteries are a form of taxation on the poor. And this tax is increasing. In 2014, lotteries contributed $21.3 billion to state budgets, up from $18.2 billion in 2008, according to the Census Bureau.

According to my research, if you want to break free from poverty you must adopt certain specific good habits (Rich Habits) and eliminate certain specific bad habits (Poor Habits).

If you want to end your poverty, adopting the habits of wealthy, successful people is the key. You must walk in the footsteps of the wealthy if you want to become wealthy. Your behaviors, thinking, emotions and decision making must mimic those who are succeeding in life.

Success is a formula. It’s not a secret any more. Your habits dictate the financial circumstances of your life.

 

 

 

 

 

The Rejection – Redemption Cycle

Are you thinking about pursuing a dream? This is for you.

 

Success is Color Blind

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I was listening to my favorite radio host, Mark Levin, recently. A woman called in. She was very angry. She said she was a black woman. She told Mark, “you white people hate us. You hold us back.”

Then I thought about Ray Charles. Ray Charles is an icon. He was, in my opinion, one of the greatest musicians, period. Ray was black. He was also blind. He battled drug addiction for many years. And yet, he succeeded.

Why? Because Ray Charles didn’t care that he was black. Ray Charles didn’t care that he was blind. He only cared about one thing. His music. His passion to succeed gave him superpowers. Ray Charles’ unlimited beliefs propelled him to greatness. That’s what the right beliefs do. They give you superpowers.

But most muddle through life blaming everyone and everything for their circumstances.

If you believe white people are holding you back, you are right.

If you believe black people are holding you back, you are right.

If you believe illegal immigrants are holding you back, you are right.

Limiting beliefs are a cancer on society. Don’t allow limiting beliefs even a second of life. They will hold you back from the life you were intended to live.

Learners Are Earners

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According to a study conducted by economists from the University of Padova, Italy, individuals who read for self-education earned 21% more, as adults, than those who did not.

In another study conducted by Daniel Belsky (Duke University), who studied 918 New Zealanders, he found that individuals who developed the reading to learn habit earned more income, had more assets and had better finances by age 38 then their peers.

In my five-year study on the daily habits of the rich:

  • 86% of the rich loved reading vs. 26% of the poor.
  • 63% of the rich listened to audio books during their commute to work vs. 5% of the poor.
  • 85% of the rich read two or more self-improvement books every month vs. 15% of the poor.
  • 88% of the rich read 30 minutes or more each day vs. 2% of the poor.

Parents who instill in their children the habit of daily educational reading set their children up to earn more during their lifetime. This habit, it turns out, follows them into their adult years.

A recent study by Brown University, in which nearly 50,000 families were surveyed, concluded that habits in children are unlikely to vary after age 9. Since most of those early years for kids are spent at home, the bulk of the habits children adopt, such as reading to learn, come primarily from their parents. As infants and toddlers, our brains are hard-wired by nature for “monkey see, monkey do” behavior.  As a result, children pick up the vast majority of their habits from their parents. Good or bad.

 

 

 

Are You a Fast Walker or Slow Walker?

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Are you a fast walker? Are you a slow walker? There’s a big difference.

There are many studies on individuals who walk fast vs. individuals who walk slow. These studies all seem to highlight the following characteristics of these diverse individuals:

FAST WALKER STRENGTHS

  • Leaders (Rich Habit)
  • Make Frequent Mistakes (Rich Habit if it = a learning experience)
  • Value Time (Rich Habit)
  • Confident (Rich Habit)
  • Ambitious (Rich Habit)
  • Risk Takers (Rich Habit if Calculated Risk)
  • Decision Makers (Rich Habit)
  • Strong Work Ethic (Rich Habit)

FAST WALKER WEAKNESSES

  • Make Frequent Mistakes (Poor Habit if no learning experience)
  • Too Many Toxic Relationships (Poor Habit)
  • Spontaneous spenders (Poor Habit)
  • Risk Takers (Poor Habit if Ignorant Risk)
  • Say what’s on their mind (Poor Habit)
  • Emotional (Poor Habit)
  • Limited Willpower (Poor Habit)
  • Impatient (Poor Habit)

SLOW WALKER STRENGTHS

  • Strong Willpower (Rich Habit)
  • Persistent (Rich Habit because success requires persistence)
  • Gatherers of Knowledge (Rich Habit)
  • Defer Gratification (Rich Habit)
  • Pursue Dreams (Rich Habit)
  • Goal-Driven (Rich Habit)
  • Savers (Rich Habit)
  • More Rich Relationships and Few Toxic Relationships (Rich Habits)
  • Patient (Rich Habit)
  • Make Few Mistakes (Rich Habit if mistake avoided is do to planning)

SLOW WALKER WEAKNESSES

  • Risk Averse (Poor Habit)
  • Miss Opportunities (Poor Habit driven by fear of action)
  • Fearful (Poor Habit)
  • Make Few Mistakes (Poor Habit if mistake avoided is do to fear of taking action)

The three most powerful Rich Habits Slow Walkers have over Fast Walkers are: Persistence, More Rich Relationships and Strong Willpower.

These three Rich Habits are fundamental to success. Without persistence, you will never succeed. Rich Relationships open doors and Toxic Relationships distract. And without strong willpower, you will never be able to change your habits.

So, in my view, Slow Walkers have the advantage in life, when it comes to success.

Are you a Fast Walker or a Slow Walker? How many of your friends and relationships are Fast Walkers or Slow Walkers? Just something to think about.