Success Requires a Positive Mental Outlook

In my five-year study of the daily habits of the rich and poor I discovered one of the secrets to success: Positivity. Wealthy people have the Rich Habit of a Positive Mental Outlook (PMO). They are upbeat, optimistic, grateful and happy.

Below are some of the positivity statistics I uncovered in my study of the wealthy: [Read more…]

Accelerate Your Learning

Each day new research into the brain is unearthing revelations about how our brains function. One such area involves learning. The brain is most effective in absorbing new information, or adopting new skills, in those areas we are most passionate about. The more we focus on things that interest us, the easier it is to learn. Pursuing things you are most passionate about accelerates your learning. It’s like putting your brain on steroids, literally. Passion releases a flood of neurotransmitters into the brain that make learning easier and faster. So find something you are passionate about and you will accelerate your learning.

Finding Your Main Purpose in 6 Months

In 2009, one of my “students” implored me to write a book that shared my habits research. He was one of ten individuals who participated in a number of my hour-long learning sessions. This session was titled: “How the Rich Achieve 100% of Their Goals”. I shared with the group the epiphany, from my research, that most people failed to achieve their goals because they were not actually setting goals, but instead making wishes. I also shared the two fundamental components of a goal: [Read more…]

4 Steps to Permanent Habit Change ….. and a New Life

Habits = unconscious behavior. Forty percent or more of our daily activities = habits (2006 Duke study). Habits save the brain from work. They require far less brain processing power and utilize far less glucose (brain fuel). Habits exist to make the brain function more efficiently. So habits are intended to be beneficial. Unfortunately, most of us have bad habits. The definition of a bad habit is one that: [Read more…]

This One Single Human Trait is Why So Few Succeed in Life

Human beings have a herd mindset that is simply overpowering. It’s what made the Nazi regime possible. It’s what drives teens to engage in bad behavior. People simply want to blend in. They want to follow the herd. [Read more…]

Don’t Set Financial Goals

Financial goals are not goals. They are wishes or dreams. Imbedded in your financial wish or dream, however, are your real goals. If your financial wish is to make an additional $50,000 a year ask yourself what actions, knowledge and skills you will need in order to realize your wish. What do you need to do in order for your wish to come true?

Example: I wish to make an additional $50,000 a year in my coaching business. What are the goals? What action do you need to take in order for that wish to come true? Let’s say you need an additional 25 clients. What do you need to do to get those clients? Speaking engagements? Seminars? Direct mail? Networking? Contribute to the media? Write a book? Write articles? Increase referrals?

It may be making 5 calls a day to pursue speaking engagements. It may be joining a network group that meets once a week. It may be sending out 5 mailers a day to businesses. It may be devoting time every day to writing a book. It may be pitching the media 5 times a day for media interviews.

You need to define the action steps first that will allow you to increase your income $50,000 a year. Then break those action steps down into weekly or daily activities. Those activities are your goals, not the $50,000. Activities are goals, not money.

4 Steps to Permanent Habit Change

4 Step Approach to Habit Change

  1. Track Your Habits For 1 Day: Track your daily behavior for one day during the work week. Don’t pick a weekend day. Work creates stress and stress triggers bad habits. Carry around a notepad and bullet point everything you do from the minute you wake up to the minute you go to bed.
  2. Create a Habit List: From your notepad, identify every existing old habit as either Good or Bad.
  3. Create a Habit Wish List: On a separate piece of paper, make a list of every new good habit you want to add.
  4. Habit Merging: Select one old habit from your Habit List and one new good habit from your Wish List and merge them. It doesn’t matter if you are combining an old bad habit with a new good habit.

Example: I want to read more – Let’s say you have an existing habit of exercising on a stair master. Layer onto this habit a new good habit of reading while you exercise. All you need is some reminder, something that cues you to engage in the new reading activity. You might put a book, your kindle or an ipod on your stair master in order to cue you to read or listen to books while you exercise. Your brain will not fight you on this new habit because you are using an existing habit’s neural pathway. You’re not competing with the brain for brain fuel. Your brain will immediately combine the two good habits into one new merged habit.

Start a Happiness Log

The book, The How of Happiness (http://www.amazon.com/The-How-Happiness-Approach-Getting/dp/0143114956), sites various studies on happiness. One such study determined the following:

  • 50% of Happiness is Gene-Based
  • 40% of Happiness is Activity-Based
  • 10% of Happiness is Circumstance-Based

This means that 40% of our happiness is within our control. Happiness is event-driven. What makes one person happier than another person is the quantity of happiness events they experience in life. The frequency of happiness events you experience is really the surest way to realizing overall happiness. Starting tomorrow keep a log of all of the happiness events in your life. Family get togethers, dinners and parties with friends, achievements, successes, realizing goals, anything that goes right in your life is a happiness event. Write it down. Periodically review your list in the morning upon waking up and right before you go to bed. It shifts your thinking from negative to positive. Tomorrow’s the day. Start your Happiness Log and it will keep all of the negativity, doubts, fears and insecurities behind a closed door, where they belong. Make happiness a habit and drip happiness wherever you go.

Follow the Yellow Brick Road – The Success Journey

Success is not an event. It is a journey. Along this journey, every successful person passes through 5 phases, that make success possible.  [Read more…]

A Typical Day in the Life of a Successful Person

There are only 1,440 minutes in each day. Rich or poor, each person’s daily bucket is filled with the exact same amount of time. Life does not discriminate with any of us, when it comes to how much time it gives us in a day. We are all on equal footing when it comes to time. What isn’t equal is what we choose to do with the time given us. That is where the rich and poor part ways. [Read more…]